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what is your opinion of a husband telling his 6 month pregnant wife you are acting like a dumbass”?
Reader question: on a subway train?? And then he puts on his headphones and she is sitting there crying for one whole hour? I want to know what everybody thinks of this situation.
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March 11th, 2010 - 04:21
Well, was she really acting like a dumba**? Sorry, I know that I’ve said and done some stupid stuff before and though my husband hasn’t said that I was acting like a dumba**, I’m sure he thought it!
March 11th, 2010 - 04:41
its not nice, but was she acting like a dumbass?
March 11th, 2010 - 05:22
Gurl I would f*** him up
March 11th, 2010 - 06:17
that ”she” should smack him or something he has no reason to do that.
March 11th, 2010 - 07:07
well, there are two sides to every story…and you are just telling one. maybe she deserved it.
March 11th, 2010 - 07:33
For everybody to see, whatever, I wouldn’t have cried I would have just gotten up and left his dumb ass sitiing there.
March 11th, 2010 - 07:37
Well, I think a few different things… I’m pregnant with my second child, and I know that sometimes I act irrationally. I sometimes let me emotions get to me (I’m doing it now and I even did it in my first pregnancy). You can’t help it though, your hormones are all over the place. So, the wife needs her husband to keep her in check. That’s what couples do after all! Make sure the other person is grounded and acting rationally. But, for him to treat her that way in public is unacceptable. In the privacy of their own home is one thing, but public is another. Him calling her a “dumbass” doesn’t mean he was being disrespectful; he was being honest. After all, I can tell my husband he’s acting like a “dickwad” or something and he’ll think nothing of it. He knows I love him, but he is ACTING out of the norm. It doesn’t mean he IS that, it just means he’s ACTING that way. So, I guess my feelings are mixed.
March 11th, 2010 - 07:42
He was having a bad day, he’s entitled to have a bad day once in a while. Just because he flipped out on a day you happen to see them for the first time in your life doesnt mean they’re a bad couple or he’s a troubled husband. My husband gets stressed and has bad days and does say things that I know he doesnt mean but I know deep down he loves me and he’s just stressed out.
March 11th, 2010 - 08:34
Maybe she was, just because she is pregnant doesn’t mean that her behavior is above reproach. The fact that she would cry for an hour shows that she is hormonal and emotional, so may be he just couldn’t stand it any more. On the other hand it’s pretty mean and juvenile to call names, especially in public. He should be trying extra hard to tolerant and supportive instead. I am 33 weeks pregnant and I know that my husband has to really restrain himself from calling me a dumb ass, he probably only doesn’t because he is afraid I would stab him in his sleep. LOL.
March 11th, 2010 - 09:30
Well she probably was being a dumbass…but that doesn’t give him the right to call her names in public. I know for one, my husband would never call me names in public or even at home. There’s other ways to solve a situation than name calling. That gets you no where. If he felt the best thing was to simply ignore her for that moment on the train until they were in private, then that’s fine. Maybe he felt that was the only way to contain his frustration/anger until he calmed down, but he shouldn’t have called her names.
March 11th, 2010 - 10:29
Hehe, I gotta say that, that sound’s like something my husband would say to me, I wouldn’t take it to heart because you must remember that while you are pregnant you are very hormonal and your poor husband would be coping the bad side of it and it was probably his only way to vent from the sitaution.