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   SeraphSantana
   March 18th, 2010 - 04:31

   @stormsinger20 But, my point is that homeboy told xem that he wanted to be with him and told him he loved him. If he didn’t do that, I’d agree with you but since Tiger did that, I’m with Xem.
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   stormsinger20
   March 18th, 2010 - 04:50

   im sorry but i have to agree with lbnmiami because xem can’t tell the guy that he can date other ppl if he wants but when he actually does it xem gets mad about it!dont say something you don’t mean!thats just how i feel!!!!!toodles!!!:-)
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   SeraphSantana
   March 18th, 2010 - 05:38

   @lbnmiami I disagree. like he said, he didn’t want Xem to put up pics. Then, Xem said he was telling Xem that he wanted him and wanted a relationship and that he loved him. Then pull this crap. Um . . .That means that he’s (Tiger) is full of crap. If you are gonna say that you love someone and want that person to be in a relationship, then don’t be going to look for some behind shortly after the person you said you want to be with leaves. Yes there are two sides but he said he loved Xem. Oh NO!
4. 

   gtownlad77
   March 18th, 2010 - 05:51

   where theres smoke theres FIRE!!!
5. 

   Dsosa720
   March 18th, 2010 - 06:47

   YOU better TALK!!!!!!!!!!!!
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   mec21arts
   March 18th, 2010 - 07:31

   ohh ohh man i dnt know his just not that in to you
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   lbnmiami
   March 18th, 2010 - 08:10

   honestly, there isn’t much to say because i only heard one side of the story. what i will address is when you said “he can date other people” because you cannot devote enough time to spend with him, and that you weren’t ready for a relationship. maybe your lack of time with him and/or your decision on dating other people may have caused him to go in another direction. evaluate yourself first before pointing fingers. there is more i want to say, but i can’t because i am going over the word count.
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   SEFYH
   March 18th, 2010 - 08:20

   @cmr0608 – I 100% agree with your comments!
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   neva2b4gotten69
   March 18th, 2010 - 08:37

   by now- i this is pretty old

   I am drinking sangria as I write this- get rid of him and move on to me, total upgrade. lol

   he ‘could’ be on there to just look at pix… but as you said not likely.

   Just remember just b/c a man is on a diet, doesn’t mean he can not look at the menu.
10. 

    starbright8701
    March 18th, 2010 - 08:37

    I’m sorry I knew this isn’t funny but evey time you talk about that pic did you have to say locks blowing in the wind….I couldn’t stop laughing lol anyway…….I would leave him alone listen to your gut.
11. 

    domcartel
    March 18th, 2010 - 08:57

    man im sorry to tell u but ur man is cheatin and good u lettin him go. i went thro somethin similar w/ my fem gf so juz let him go…dont be like me and fall in love w/ them and end up hurt in the end
12. 

    egomaniaxxl
    March 18th, 2010 - 09:50

    I SO AGREE!
13. 

    sxzazz123
    March 18th, 2010 - 10:10

    Damn bro sorry! I would feel the same way as you.
14. 

    Bmystyle
    March 18th, 2010 - 10:19

    omg i hate your intro but your messages are sound…. well most of the time
15. 

    bonesneil
    March 18th, 2010 - 10:39

    being on bgc is different from being on youtube, i think.. everyone watches youtube and only gay ppl for the most part uses bgc.. and u did say he could date other ppl.. so idk
16. 

    cmr0608
    March 18th, 2010 - 11:08

    Well…first I do want to acknowledge that I do FULLY understand your frustration and pain. However, you did express giving him permission to date other men. I’m curious to know what are you really mad about? Was your ego hurt that he was BGC or feeling hurt that he may not have wanted to be seen in pics with you? Did he actually step out of the parameters of the relationships; which you’ve stated he was not your boyfriend! I seem to have been capture by your vids and haven’t been to sleep. Thx
17. 

    AdiBecicVault
    March 18th, 2010 - 11:22

    DEAD @ YOUR SHIRT.
18. 

    cnorthrop11
    March 18th, 2010 - 12:07

    i found my ‘friends’ bgc. and its CRAZY that he has one because he SWEARS he is so “dl” and he wants to play this role like i’m the only guy he’s ever been with. And its not just a regular ole’ profile. NO! He’s alternates between half and fully naked shots of himself…like…WTF? I feel you in this video Xem.
19. 

    KingSnoopy2004
    March 18th, 2010 - 12:55

    Some people need love to fill huge holes in their hearts that 1 person can’t give, but that is no excuse to do something like that when 1 minute he says be with me and then as soon as your back is turned he’s online. That is why alot of gay people(including me) have trust issues
20. 

    yellowboy1980
    March 18th, 2010 - 13:53

    THAT MOTHERFUCKER…Folk I fell you the whole way. dont change your mind not one second. Like you said if the dude can take picture the the damn water,but dont want one with you. HE was still looking for ASS. trust me you aint the first and want be the last. Keep it moving..and if you want I dont have a police record so we can key the car, sugar in tank, etc. I got bail money and a house to put on it. lol
21. 

    fr3shjr
    March 18th, 2010 - 14:38

    oh he was most definately wrong and u had every right to be livid with him! and i second that 5 stars for ur “single” shirt Xem, haha.
22. 

    SoRealAmerica
    March 18th, 2010 - 15:11

    All I can think is he’s bitter that you did not commit to being in a relationship with him. Also, most likely he didn’t want you posting his pics because even though he’s single he’d be percieved by many as not available. My lil sis does the same thing the same scenario happened with her even worse the guy paid for all of her stuff.
23. 

    shammah1906
    March 18th, 2010 - 15:11

    Well Xem this type of shit happens all the time. I think you should calm down and talk to him with out all the emotion. whos to say he didn’t have the on line account befor you started dating him. You said he is not your boy friend so if your really feeling him talk to him. You said you don’t have time for him and he might be the type that needs extra attention and the online sight might give it to him…///
24. 

    mjk0386
    March 18th, 2010 - 15:27

    I completly AGREE with you Xem because it happen to me five days ago and I went the fuck OFF! Maybe I should make a vid too. lol
25. 

    highu3
    March 18th, 2010 - 16:08

    I would beat his ass.

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