1. 

   Not Dottie Parker
   March 7th, 2010 - 23:28

   This book contains two absolutely marvelous concepts that really grabbed me. The big one was “Be The Chooser.” It’s not a new idea, but it was phrased in a way that helped me understand, very simply and solidly, exactly what it means to be proactive in looking for a good relationship. Another one was the clear explanation of the difference between dating for relationship practice, dating to find a life partner, and the big mistake of “dating to mate.” and how to tell which you’re doing and which you should be doing.

   Other than that, this book isn’t all THAT new and different. After all, there aren’t many relationship books that have something genuinely new to say. But it is approachable, accessible, and totally reassuring, which is a huge plus in a universe of how-to-find-love books that start with the assumption that if you’re still single, there’s something wrong with you that needs to be fixed. Thank goodness for a book that starts with the assumption that it’s perfectly fine not to be racing down the aisle with the first likely suspect.

   
   Rating: 4 / 5
2. 

   StraightRazr.com: A Comprehensive Lifestyle Coaching Resource for Men.
   March 8th, 2010 - 00:03

   This is the book the dating world has been waiting for. A book that really asks you to answer the simple question – ‘what are you looking for in a relationship?’ Then the book takes you through helpful tips and insights to help you discover and anchor those needs, wants and requirements.

   Many other dating/relationship books fall into two categories – simple tips/tricks to get dates, or inner search material that’s so high minded you’re still left a little confused.

   After reading this book, men and women alike should be able to assess where they are in their relationship life-stage (recreational dating, in the midst of a ‘mini-marriage,’ looking for a life partner), and be clear on what they need and seek from a partner – now and in the future.

   While the book has a section on approaching potential partners, detailed support material in this area (scripted approaching techniques, field-tested ice breakers, etc.) are probably best left to relationship coaches, done through sites like mine and others.

   What this book will provide is a foundational framework to ensure future relationship success.

   - GiddyupGuy
   Rating: 5 / 5
3. 

   George Polley
   March 8th, 2010 - 02:37

   David Steele has written what ought to become a benchmark in its field. Practical, proactive, easy-to-read and jargon free, David Steele helps his readers learn how to identify the kind of people they want to be with, how to weed out bad matches before asking for or accepting a date, and how to become really, really CLEAR about the kind of life partner relationship they want to grow.

   This is a book that I recommend to all of my clients who are dating or planning on dating at some time in the future. You can tell that David Steele, MA, founder of the Relationship Coaching Institute is a relationship coach, because he’s darned good at it.

   If you don’t have this book, buy it; you’ll be happy that you did.

   George Polley, MSW, LICSW
   
   psychotherapist and life coach
   Rating: 5 / 5
4. 

   Ilene L. Dillon, M.S.W.
   March 8th, 2010 - 05:21

   David Steele’s Conscious Dating has the depth and coverage you’d expect from years of research and work with the topic. Having obtained an advanced copy due to David’s appearance on my Internet radio broadcast, I was so excited about it that I purchased extra copies to share with my private practice clients. Everything works better with a system–and this book does system, all leading readers to consciously conduct their search for their mate. His section on “Requirements,” exercises to get to know yourself and your requirements better, and warm and supportive understanding of what we all can go through, make this a very valuable adjunct to relationships therapy with singles. There is value on every page. Alone for over 18 years, I gave up on dating after 8 fruitless years! If only I had been able to purchanse Conscious Dating then! Thanks, David, for your careful, caring work. Ilene
   Rating: 5 / 5
5. 

   S. Duban
   March 8th, 2010 - 06:45

   This book is mainly directed at woman around 30+ and more imporantly people that have been divorced or widowed. It has mini stories every couple of pages with real life examples of his teachings as well as exercises at the end of each chapter. Most, if not all, of the examples given in his chapters involve woman, in one case a gay man, that have been divorced or had a bad breakup and their struggles.

   This book is written in the “self help” format with a therapist understanding. The description also talks about places to find singles, but the actual book gives little to zero notice on the topic.

   If you’re a guy looking for a tutorial on talking to women this is the wrong book for you. This book is geared towards older adults looking to “get back on the horse”.
   Rating: 4 / 5

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